Showing posts with label 20something. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 20something. Show all posts

February 24, 2015

On Turning 30 and Other Frights and Delights

It's 11:11pm and in less than an hour, I'll be 30. I don't know - it feels weird. Maybe it's just the martinis I had tonight, but I think it's also just a weird feeling to leave behind my 20's. It was a long-ass decade. Holy man. Thinking back to when I turned 20 and thinking through college, graduation, four years in NYC, another four in San Diego, a few minute relationships and then a really long one, changing majors, career moves, cross-country moves. It's just a lot happened and I don't know if I should mourn or celebrate or both. I guess both.

They say 29 is your best year. I mean NY Mag wrote about it - plus Buzzfeed etc. It wasn't the best year for me to be honest - it was whatever but it feels sad to leave it behind and enter into THIRTY. Eww. Omg. No. What does this mean? I must make lists.

A few quick things I learned in my 20s:
1. Real friends know how to be friends when it's not convenient.
2. It's okay to change your mind about your goals - it's okay to want to travel or be a mom instead of a CMO.
3. Drinking water and not drinking vodka are both seriously necessary if you don't want wrinkles. So is sunscreen.
4. Go to the doctor. But then go get acupuncture and do yoga because drugs are probably not the answer. If you feel like you need medication to get through a work day, it's not the right work day for you.
5. Appreciate the moment because time starts speeding up after 25 and you might not get more time with your loved ones. I know it's heavy but it's important. Don't screw this one up. Prioritize.

Things I'm annoyed about: 
1. I'll never be on a 30 under 30 list. Like this SERIOUSLY bothers me. UGH.
2. I have to have kids soon - like yesterday. And I'm not ready. And I don't know if I ever will be.
3. I thought I'd be married in my 20's - and I really don't know how long this jig of eating cupcakes and doing yoga is going to last for me. I'm not looking forward to cardio and working out so I fit in a stupid dress.
4. My parents were younger than me when they had me. Terrifying.
5. It's no longer cute to be confused, hungover, whimsical, and erratic. I've now transitioned from young and restless to just plain crazy. It's like get it together or check yourself in now.

Things to look forward to in my 30's: 
1. No longer getting accused of being young and stupid, especially at work. Being 30 means you're mature and know stuff. Still a "Millennial" but now mature. This is good.
2. Probably having kids in this decade.WhoawhoaWhoa.
3. Actually having income to travel the world and not sacrificing groceries and paying bills. Kinda cool.
4. It's acceptable to stay in and watch Netflix, host wine and cheese parties, geek out on books with friends, and give advice. It's fun to give advice - and I enjoy telling kids who are about to graduate to seriously forget career and go travel. But really.
5. Botox? Gray hair? Idk what else?

January 17, 2015

Found: Bucket List

Goals I set for myself in life 12 years ago before college. I checked off the things I've accomplished...

1. Write for National Geographic
2. Fly over Grand Canyon in glider/ultralight
3. Archaeology
4. Study British Literature - Middle English
5. Learn Latin
6. Go to French theatre
7. Go to play in London 
8. Go to Alaska
9. Windsurfing
10. Surf
11. Write a book and screenplay
12. Direct and produce a film
13. Have a private airplane
14. Skydiving
15. Hot air balloon
16. Study religions through experience
17. Establish a charity
18. Vacation on Mediterranean
19. Have a library

Not listed:
1. Pretty much everything in my current career and life

Current thought:
1. I have a lot of work to do
2. Becoming afraid of heights was not good for my bucket list
3. I may have picked the wrong major

Quote I wrote at 16:
If you don't like where you are and if you are not happy, than either: 1. you are blind to your blessings 2. you neglected to follow a dream and settled for less or 3. you are denying and refusing a crucial lesson

Damn, son 
1. Write Bucket List - Check.

January 4, 2015

When to Take Your Christmas Tree Down

This year, I was especially angry to see people taking their trees down on December 26th. Maybe it's because I'm still waiting for snow, and still half expecting to wake up in PA on Christmas morning. Or it could be because it's January 4th and I still haven't received all of my Christmas gifts in the mail. Or it could be because I woke up on New Year's Day not able to move my head - with a tweaked shoulder injury thing and I literally can't take the ornaments off the tree yet.

Anyway, I researched it and it's actually bad luck to take your tree down before the 12 days of Christmas and Epiphany are over (so ha!). Sidenote - Google autofilled my search query and asked if I meant "when to take pregnancy test" or "when to take creatine." No, Google. Stop. These days, Epiphany may be celebrated on the Sunday between January 2nd and 8th, so today is probably the first day it's okay to take the tree down without getting a hefty heap of bad luck this year. I might take down my snowmen/tacky ceramic figurines/non-tree Christmas crap today and wait til Tuesday to take the tree down. I seriously don't need any more bad luck this year - I already can't look to the left.

I grew up in a Protestant household, going to church more often than I probably wanted and I never knew the 12 days of Christmas started on Christmas and lasted til the Epiphany on January 6th. I mean - what? The Christmas season doesn't start on Black Friday? We're supposed to get trees on Christmas Eve? We really shouldn't be working til after Epiphany? Tell that to Ebenezer "Corporation" Scrooge. Although come to think of it, January 6th was the day my grandmother always took her tree down. And wait, what's Epiphany again? Oh, when the 3 Wise Men finally made it to visit Jesus in the manger. You mean, they camped out in a barn for two weeks, waiting for these foreign dudes to bring them gold and... herbs used for embalming mummies and in face creams? Something like that.

But your tree is dying and making a mess? How about don't put it up in November next time. Or get a fake one and some pine scented candles. There was also that time when I was in high school that we left the tree up til Valentine's Day and put cut-out, paper hearts on it - according to my scientific research project, that's bad luck too because you're taking the old into the new - bringing your baggage along. You have a small window to get that tree down and out - don't screw it up. 

PS Epiphany is a Christian feast day, so don't forget to make your 3rd turkey in a month. How sick are you of turkey at this point? I'm contemplating going to Mexico for Thanksgiving 2015 and drinking margaritas instead. I don't think I can stomach turkey leftovers ever again and we didn't have turkey on Christmas - I'm just still sick of Thanksgiving turkeys. But really - in England (the Motherland) - Wikipedia tells us to light up the yule log, have mulled cider, fruitcake, and such. After Epiphany, we head into Carnival season - leading up to Mardi Gras. Worlds collide.

I think somewhere along the way, we truly lost the meaning of Christmas. These traditions and meanings are being taken out with the garbage bags of wrapping paper. Truly sad. Is it just like that in America? I feel like traditions aren't as wispy in Europe. Is that true?

Which brings me to my other "issue" - how am I still not living in England? Why did my family have to emigrate? Can we go back to 1701 and tell ol' Pappy to just chill out and enjoy the beautiful countryside and the lovely accents of our people and stay put? Then we wouldn't have to work during the 12 days of Christmas and we'd be enjoying a fruitcake today, planning out our next 6 week vacation. Bah! Humbug.

December 28, 2014

Home Away from Home on Christmas

I wasn't in PA for Christmas for maybe the second time ever in life. I missed seeing everyone and keeping up the traditions we've had forever, but it was nice staying home, avoiding airports, and making new traditions.

On Christmas Eve, after I was done prepping for Christmas Day brunch (press cookies, egg bake, cinnamon buns, bourbon eggnog...), Shaun and I wandered around the Hotel del Coronado. We sat on the beach in the dark and then drove around looking at Christmas lights.
Christmas Eve at the Hotel del Coronado
Christmas morning, we Skyped with my family, had Shaun's mom and sister over for brunch - complete with cinnamon sugar bacon, Cards Against Humanity, and a yule log fire on the big screen TV. We stopped at a friend's house on Christmas night for wine and made friends with a drag queen.
Eggnog
Christmas Morning at Home
On the 26th, we spent our gift cards at the mall and had dinner with new friends downtown. On the 27th, we explored a new neighborhood and visited a new tourist attraction. All in all, a good holiday, despite a bad case of the Sunday blues today due to having to work this week.

Downtown San Diego

Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery

December 8, 2014

1st Annual Cookies and Cocoa Party

It's hard to get into the holiday spirit when it's always 70 and sunny in SoCal, so I hosted a cookie exchange for the first time!

According to my research, people are really organized with their cookie exchanges. I did more of a lazy hostess version - I told everyone to bring at least a dozen cookies in a Facebook invite. Then later, I said it was okay if they bought cookies instead of baked because I didn't want to be TOO demanding. At least I'm not the host that says you have to make 8 dozen, package up 7 dozen in matching gift tins, labeled, with recipe, and put the other dozen on a holiday themed plate for tasting and for voting. I just said 'bring cookies.' And it worked out really well! No one made the same kind, even though we didn't talk about who was doing what. We set them ALL on the table to snack on (we used gift tags as labels), and at the end, everyone grabbed a paper plate and piled it up with a mixture of no calorie treats, threw some plastic wrap on it (and maybe a bow) and probably finished them up for dinner like I did! Simple!


The best part besides the guests and cookies was the hot cocoa bar. And honestly I didn't even drink hot cocoa because we also had holiday sangria. But it was so much fun to put together. Two hours before the party, I made hot cocoa in the Crock Pot. I did about a cup per person. I set out pretty much everything you would want to put into hot cocoa and more - a few favorites were the Reese's peanut butter chips, homemade whipped cream, Chocolate Cherry Bailey's, and homemade cupcake marshmallows (custom recipe below!). I even made a sign. Gosh, I'm cute.

Since I got a little manic on Pinterest, I just had to make gingerbread dip with graham crackers. I also thought we needed something healthy to go with all the desserts, so I whipped up chocolate dipped clementines with sea salt (we are not going to call them Cuties - ever) and wine soaked grapes. Hey, it's still fruit!

All in all, a successful Sunday. Who wants to come to the cookies and cocoa party next year? Or next weekend?


Cupcake Marshmallows
(adapted from Butter Baked Goods and Martha Stewart)
2/3 cups water 
2 envelopes unflavored gelatin
1.5 cups sugar
2/3 cup light corn syrup
1/8 teaspoon salt
1 tbsp vanilla extract
1 tbsp cupcake syrup (why doesn't Starbucks have this??)
powdered sugar to coat them at the end - around a cup
butter or cooking spray for your pan

Tools: Baking pan; saucepan, stand mixer, spatula, measuring cups, parchment paper, plastic wrap


Directions 

  1. Prep your baking pan - I put parchment paper in the bottom and sprayed with cooking spray. You could also butter or spray the pan instead & skip the parchment paper - just be generous with the coating. 
  2. In a stand mixer with a whisk attachment, pour in 1/3 cup of the water and  sprinkle with the gelatin. Set aside so it can soak. 
  3. In a medium saucepan, bring sugar, corn syrup, salt and remaining 1/3 cup water to a rolling boil - continue boiling for 1 minute and then remove from heat. 
  4. Turn the mixer on low and mix the gross gelatin to combine with the water. Slowly and carefully add the hot sugar mixture, pour down the side of the mixing bowl - away from the beaters. It's molten sugar! Mix on low. 
  5. When it feels safe, crank up the mixer to high and whip for 10-12 minutes - the batter will become thick and expand. Scrape down the sides the bowl as it mixes. Stop the mixer and add the vanilla & cupcake syrup. Try not to face plant into it because it smells so good. Whip briefly to combine.
  6. Transfer to the buttered baking pan and use a spatula to spread evenly.
  7. Stick a buttered or sprayed sheet of plastic wrap across the top. Press down firmly to seal it up - this is also a good time to flatten out the slab and make it more even. 
  8. I let it sit at room temp overnight - at least 3 hours though. 
  9. When it's been 3 hours or more - sprinkle a cutting board with powdered sugar. Remove the top plastic wrap. Flip the pan upside down and it should come right out if you prepped your pan in step 1. Rub the slab with powdered sugar. Use cookie cutters (sprayed with cooking spray) or a knife to cut up. Roll each piece into powdered sugar so they're not so sticky to handle. If you use cookie cutters, you can cut up the scraps into smaller, misshaped pieces that are good for snacking.
  10. Toss into hot cocoa. Store at room temp for up to a week in a sealed container.

December 3, 2014

All I Want for Christmas Is a Comeback

I can't take that my last blog post was over two and a half years ago. Or that the last two posts are just old financial articles I wrote, squatting on my fun and witty blog because they had no where to go when their home was removed from the interwebs.

Alas, my dreams of becoming a famous and wealthy blogger will wait for no one, including me. So what I'm saying is that the blog must come back. It probably won't be pretty at first (kind of like this little blogger space I've created.) I just can't figure out how to get a picture to go all the way across the top or how to insert a recipe so that it can be indexed on Pinterest - what's it called, the java hash script thingy? Don't tell anyone I work in digital marketing.

I spent the last two years trying to decide what my comeback post would be about. It's just a lot of pressure! It has to be good enough that people (you) want to come back. It can't rip off of the other bloggers I've grown to love and envy, it should include a fabulous recipe, and some high-qual photography.

But I'm just a little bit too lazy to re-launch with that much pizzazz. 

I'm narrowing down that list to focus on the most important list of the year. My Christmukkah list. Okay, I never really make a list for myself. I just drop lots of hints, because I'm too focused on my giant Excel spreadsheet tracking what I'm getting for everyone else, including item, store, date ordered, shipping information and price. Every year I end up spending around the same thing, even though I never set a budget upfront. Isn't that weird?

You're welcome in advance for all but sticking the bow on my own gifts this year. 

Dear Santa or anyone who cares,
I want:
  • This Fresh Cream flavored (scented?) perfume. Because it would be awesome to smell like whipped cream all the days of my life. And I haven't even smelled it yet.
  • A beach cruiser bike - probably in a pastel color with a wicker basket and bell with my name written on it in glitter
  • Lifetime supply of these age-defying products because I'm going to be stupid THIRTY next year.
  • Kitchen stuff (because who has time to wait for a registry?): Blender, pots, pans, silverware, plates, coffee maker, espresso machine, apple corer, ice cream maker, slotted spoon, kitchen scissors, garlic mincer, round cake pans (tiered and non-tiered), & Magic Bullet
  • So I can pretend to know how to curl my hair: Chi Air Expert Classic Tourmaline Ceramic 1-Inch Flat Iron
  • Makeup - just all of it
  • Tea & Sympathy candles preferably Milk & Cookies but Biscuits & Berries is good too - sold out everywhere, so good luck
  • A Christmas Pickle so I can hide it on the tree and then find it and get an extra gift
  • Sparkly, diamondy stuff
  • Kindle/Amazon gift cards so I can read Outlander for the rest of time. (Jamie = Swoon)
  • Yoga stuff
  • Iron because I have an empty place on a far-off closet shelf
  • Piano, otherwise that decade of lessons just keeps going to waste
  • Kate Spade discontinued sprinkles makeup bag
  • Taylor Swift album (preferably on Spotify)
  • Ugg slippers so my feet can sweat in our non-stop 80 degree San Diego weather 
  • Invite to the Star Wars premiere
And while we're asking....
  • A bunch of vacation
  • A life in Europe
  • Hovercraft
  • Role on a successful sitcom
  • Unlimited free miles and fancy hotel rooms


Sincerely,
Ellyn


May 20, 2012

Roth IRA Versus 401(k): The Great 20-Something Debate

Written 4/5/11 for Minyanville.

 In my last post, I mentioned that saving is one of the first steps to take toward a financially secure future. Specifically, invest in a 401(k) if your company offers one.  The money goes in automatically pre-tax (you can even pretend it doesn’t exist), and usually the company matches a percentage of what you input. Any percentage you invest is better than nothing. Find out the max amount your company will match and aim for that. Or you can do a Roth IRA, with money that’s been taxed in your paycheck already. The max is $5K per year. You can also do a combination 401(k)/Roth IRA if you want to diversify and get fancy.


That makes it sound like I know what I’m talking about. The truth is that I have no idea how much I’m contributing to my 401(k). I spent a good fifteen minutes trying to find out on the company’s website to no avail. All I know is that I have one, I’m putting money into it, and that’s good.
I don’t know anything about a Roth IRA except that you invest money (up to $5K) that’s already been taxed as I said above. What does that even mean? And who in his or her 20’s has $5K lying around? Definitely not me.
So this week I’m looking at the difference between a 401(k) and a Roth IRA, the pros and cons of each, and then deciding how much I personally should be investing in my 401(k) (after calling to find out what percentage I already contribute. Homework, ugh.), and then figure out whether a Roth IRA is something I should do too. It’s not like 401(k) and Roth IRA are the only retirement fund options. There are tons of others, but these are the two I hear about most often.
Of course, it’s different for everyone, but hopefully my research will help you out and we can get beach chairs next to each other when we retire at 59.5.
Roth IRA is an investment account, in which you invest money that has already been taxed as part of your regular paycheck into stocks, bonds, index funds etc. It’s then managed by a brokerage firm. Easy enough.
Pros: The cool thing is that whatever you gain in there is tax-free when you take it out later in life because it was already taxed before you put the money in. If you can afford to put in the max $5K every year (that’s less than $100 a week or about $14 a day) and let’s say you’re 25, you will have $200K by the time you’re 65. But you’ll also have gains and interest, which have accumulated on your money over time.
Our 20-something financial guru Marc Bodinger says “If you take it seriously and contribute the max annually you should have a million by retirement.” There are also more investment options, like common stock, mutual funds, bonds, and ETFs, versus a 401(k), which may only offer mutual funds.
Cons: Your Roth IRA investment is not matched by your company. Like the 401(k) you have to leave the money in the account until retirement, or you’ll face penalties. There are some exceptions, but I suppose you could say it’s frowned upon. You can take out the original amount you invested if you need to without penalty. There’s a chart on Smart Money  that shows when you’ll face penalties and what the exceptions are.
How to invest in one: You have to call a broker (TD Ameritrade, Charles Schwab, your local bank, etc.) to open an account. You can’t just waltz over to HR tomorrow morning unfortunately. Some of them have a minimum amount you need to invest, so decide what you can invest and see who will work with you. If you’re going to put in $5K in a year, you just have to do it by April 18th. Then a new year starts. It’s probably best to direct deposit either from your paycheck or your bank account into the Roth IRA, so you actually invest in it and don’t forget. If $5K sounds like way too much because you’re paying student loans, rent, and hardly make anything, that’s okay. Just invest what you can. If it’s $100 a month, you’ll learn to live without it and you can rest assured that the money is growing for you and you don’t have to do much of anything. Make it goal to do this with your next raise or bonus or birthday money.
401(k): An investment company, such as Fidelity or Principal, manages 401(k) cash money. They will give you different options. There are some already set up and you can choose based on your age. Or you can pick your own options (stocks, mutual funds, international) to throw in the basket if you don’t like the pre-packaged choices. Obviously I have a pre-packaged choice, because I wouldn’t have a clue what to choose for myself.
Pros: With a 401(k) less of your income is taxed now, since the dollars go into the account pre-tax and then grow. You can deduct this investment from your taxable income, so really you’re saving money by saving. If your company matches the money you invest, that’s just free money for you. For example, if you invest $2,000 and your company has a 1:1 match, you really have $4,000. You can have the money taken right out of your paycheck, and all you have to do it talk to HR at your company. Oh, and if you leave your current job, you can just take your 401(k) with you. You don’t want to cash out until retirement, but the investments will roll over for you, even between investment companies.
Cons: You do pay taxes on your 401(k) dollars when you take the money out though in retirement. It counts as regular income tax that year. And if you log off of Facebook for five seconds so your career goes well, you’ll be in a higher tax bracket by then, so that will be a big tax year for you considering taxes are likely to increase in the next 40 years.
How to invest in one: Go to HR and ask for an application. Find out how much your company matches, if you have to be at your company for a certain amount of time before they match, or if you have to invest a certain percentage for them to match. Try to invest so you get the max amount matched by your company for free money!
So 401(k) or Roth IRA?
Marc says, Both. “We will need both upon retirement anyways. I’ll bet on that.”
Another young financially savvy attorney also says both. “You pay taxes with both. Bottom line. It’s just you pay taxes at different times. If you put your money in 401(k),  taxes could increase, then you’re paying more. If you put your money in Roth IRAs you lose out on the company matching your pay. My personal belief is that it’s never smart to have all of your money in one place.”
If your company doesn’t offer a 401(k) or match your contributions, it looks like a Roth IRA is a good alternative.
In any case, you have to do something. You can’t rely on social security or the government to take care of you in retirement. You have to plan ahead. If you open a 401(k), Roth IRA, both or something else, you’re giving yourself an advantage in terms of taxes, growing your money, and keeping your head above water. No one is saying it’s a fun time. It’s not like you get to take the money out and buy a new iPad every few months. But you’re saving for your future. Not only saving, but accumulating. And it’s not extra work once you set it up.
Start now though, because if you figure you’ll wait a few years until you make more money, you’re losing out on thousands that could be accumulating while you procrastinate and whine about not having money to save. It looks like the only way to get rich besides making a lot of money is investing in something that makes your dollars multiply. Money may not grow on trees, but it does grow in retirement accounts. Seems kind of like a magical no-brainer.
Choose Your Nest Egg Nest

Trusted Sources: Bankrate.com and iwillteachyoutoberich.com

20-Something Myth: “I Can’t Afford to Save”

Moving this over from my Minyanville blog. I don't have time to keep up with it, so it's being archived, sadly. This one was written 3/22/11

I’m a 26-year-old who’s been working in Manhattan as a media planner for four years. I manage budgets for a living, so you would think I’d have a clue about how to manage my own money by now.

Not so much.

I’m only just beginning to realize that I’m not in college anymore. I can’t call my parents to ask if they can pay half of my rent, like I did at Penn State. Just a couple months ago, my cell phone bill was finally transferred from my mother’s name to mine. I realize it’s ridiculous that she paid my bill for that long, but I wasn’t going to bring it up before she did.

So now I’m 100% financially independent, and I have no idea what I’m doing. My head spins and I start dozing off when I try to learn about stocks, retirement funds, and social security.

Still, my goal for 2011 is to figure out some sort of long-term investment strategy for myself, so I’m building a financially stable future, instead of just working to pay rent. As I embark on this wild adventure and talk to financially smarter people, I will keep you posted, so you can learn along with me.

Let’s say you just graduated from college, or you started your first job (congrats on actually finding one), or maybe you’ve been working for a few years, but you’re barely living paycheck to paycheck. You feel like you don’t have the time or patience to invest, and you need every last cent to pay your rent, credit card bill, and college loans. You’re not alone.

I’m in the paycheck to paycheck boat, mostly because my rent is upwards of $1,000 a month in the New York City metro area. Once I pay rent, I’m almost drained for the following two weeks, so I use a credit card. Then with my next paycheck, I pay my credit card. If I happen to buy a trip to Vegas, an expensive birthday gift for my beloved boyfriend, or pay a huge heating bill, I’m in debt for another month. It’s like being in a hamster wheel, and it’s not like we can just hop off.

However, we’re about solutions, not whining, so I talked to Marc Bodinger, a 20-something associate at a financial research firm and self-professed finance aficionado (a rare breed).

“The 2008 financial crisis has demoralized young investors (our age group) to the point where they would rather go shopping then prepare for a future without social security and pensions.”

Yes, but it’s so much more fun to shop!

“Every day we don’t start preparing is a loss when we’re older.”

Scary stuff, Marc.

“In order to invest, you need to save.”

Yes, the first step we need to take toward our futures in a sunny, cushy retirement community in Florida or at least that huge wedding reception we’re throwing for ourselves in the next two to five years begins with saving and/or paying off debt. If we don’t save, we’ll never get off the hamster wheel. And the hamster wheel is not a good place, so you do want to have an exit strategy.

My friends always say, “I can’t afford to save, because I have so many bills!” But in reality, you can’t afford NOT to save.

1. If you have credit card debt or you just bought a fancy watch you couldn’t afford but just had to have, your first priority is to pay it off. And not with another credit card! Sense: that makes none. The interest you pay on these things is like flushing money down the toilet. Interest is how credit card companies stay in business; they want you to be in debt. It makes them rich. Do your best to get rid of your balance. Then if you need me to swing by and cut your credit cards for you, let me know.

2. For college loans, do your research and consolidate to make sure you’re paying the lowest amount of interest possible. The good thing is that college loans are tax deductible. Still, the sooner you can catch up, the better. And when you do catch up, try to stay afloat.

3. Start an Excel spreadsheet and budget your expenses. If you know you’re going to a bar tonight and will probably spend $100 on drinks, food, a cab, and more drinks for some random cute girl, make sure you set that money aside. Don’t worry about it later, just be honest with yourself and prepare. Make a solid effort to live within your means. What do you think our grandparents did before credit cards were invented? I’m guessing they didn’t spend hundreds of dollars on bottle service at a trendy club or buy the latest record player. They only bought what they could afford. A credit card isn’t money. It’s imaginary money. It doesn’t exist until you pay your bill with actual cash you’ve earned. If you’re spending more than you make, get a second job.
Credit cards = Imaginary money

4. Have an emergency stash, a savings account, separate from your checking account. Don’t use it unless it’s actually an emergency, and spring break doesn’t count. Make it a point to put money in whenever you can (birthdays, bonuses, money you won in your office football pool etc.) You just never know what life is going to throw your way.

5. Invest in a 401(k) if your company offers one. The money goes in automatically pre-tax (you can even pretend it doesn’t exist), and usually the company matches a percentage of what you input. Any percentage you invest is better than nothing. Find out the max amount your company will match and aim for that. Or you can do a Roth IRA, with money that’s been taxed in your paycheck already. The max is $5K per year. You can also do a combination 401(k)/Roth IRA if you want to diversify and get fancy.

You’ll always have expenses, but saving, even if it’s only 3% in a 401(k) or 10% of each paycheck in a savings account to buy your first home, is extremely important, so no excuses.

“It’s difficult but it needs to be done because one day you’ll be 55 and you won’t have the time to play catch up. Saving a little everyday now will pay off,” Marc says.

Time is on our side for right now. We need to take advantage of being young and do everything we can for our near and distant futures. I don’t know about you, but I want to be sitting on the beach when I’m old, not in a cubicle.